We Love What’s Familiar: Why This Sucks and What to do About it

We have all noticed it before: Chinese people hang out with other Chinese people, Germans with Germans, Indonesians with Indonesians. Consciously many of us don’t want it to happen. But it does anyways. And I am guilty of it, too. Even though I actively tried to avoid making friends with the Germans, the first good friend I got when I…